Journal #12

Should girls ask boys out?

I know that women are interested in men as much as men do, but they don’t try to approach to men first. Sometimes it seems like a taboo which must be broken. Although many people disagree with that girls have to wait until men ask her to go out with, I think girls should ask boy out.
Some people say that men don’t like an aggressive woman, but it is partially true. Some men run away if a woman comes close to them, but some women also do exactly same. Most of men are shame when they are refused by women, and some men don’t have enough courage to dash to women. However, they have to try to approach to women because women don’t come to them first.
Sometimes people say that if a woman expresses her mind first, then the man who is loved her doesn’t respect her. However, it is kind of prejudice; who knows that the man appreciates her courage.
I knew a girl who lost her love, and later she confessed how much she loved a man who couldn’t know she liked him. Moreover, the man also likes the girl too, but he didn’t have courage either. They like each other, both of them didn’t know it. Thus, I insist that women should have courage to ask men out.